Body Language – Heal ThySELF DVM http://www.healthyselfdvm.com Re-Igniting Your Love of Veterinary Medicine Wed, 01 Nov 2017 16:29:09 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=5.2.21 Adopt the Wonder Woman Pose! http://www.healthyselfdvm.com/adopt-the-wonder-woman-pose/ Wed, 01 Nov 2017 16:29:09 +0000 http://www.healthyselfdvm.com/?p=1093 Continue reading "Adopt the Wonder Woman Pose!"]]> Have you seen the new Wonder Woman movie that came out this summer? Wow! I really enjoyed it. The strong female lead, the hero’s journey, the ability for her to move forward when everything in her was saying to stay safe. Lots and lots of good stuff in there. But what I want to focus on today is her pose.

Now, granted it is a little airbrushed and wind machine aided hollywood style but look at the stance. It embodies to me an easy confidence in herself. Her shoulders are back, her back is strong, her core is strong yet exposed, and her eyes are soft yet focused on what’s in front of her.

It has been shown that our body posture reflects our emotions. When we are sad or depressed we tend to slouch, round our shoulders, look down, not make eye contact, talk softly. When we are mad we are standing tall, leaning forward, muscles tense, eyes laser focused, brows furrowed.

The cool thing is that our body can create our emotions! Yep! All those synapses that create our posture also hold the keys to our emotions. Holding our body in certain ways creates emotion, thoughts and habitual ways of acting.

So this week, I want you to first notice how you hold yourself throughout the day. How do you stand when feeling confident? How about when a client is questioning you? How about when a cute puppy or kitten comes in? Notice how your body stance changes, your facial muscles feel, your back feels.

Now, practice your version of Wonder Woman. We’ll call her Wonder Vet!!!!!! Stand tall but relaxed, shoulder blades rolled back and down, weight going down through the ground, eyes focused but soft allowing you to see peripherally, and feel your breath expanding in your core, your abdomen.

I encourage you to practice your Wonder Vet stance in the privacy of your home and then take her out with you! When you are delivering a diagnosis, an estimate, a treatment plan, stand in your body’s version of confidence and strength and see the difference it can make in the way the information is given and received. I think you will find it a wonderful experiment!

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